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Things to try

There are lots of self-help resources available to help with mental health and wellbeing.

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Don't worry, you're in the right place! All content from our HandsOn website is now here - please click the "Topics" link below.

Some resources are aimed at children and young people, some are more for parents and carers, and some are designed for professionals who work with children and young people. Have a look, try some out, and see if there’s something here that helps you.­­

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Topics (from HandsOn)

About mental health - We all have mental health in the same way that we have physical health. Mental health is about all our emotions, both positive and negative. Our mental health affects everything we do, and how we think and feel about our everyday lives.

Anger  - Feeling angry at times is as natural as feeling happy or sad, but it's important for children and young people to learn how to express their anger effectively.

Anxiety - Children and young people feel anxious when they are frightened, worried or stressed, and we can help them to recognise and deal with these feelings.

Bereavement - All children and young people will grieve following the death of someone close. Bereavement is a natural process and with the right support, they will be able to cope and adapt to the changes.

Bullying  - Bullying is one of the most common problems that children and young people face. It can be very difficult for them to talk about, and they may not know what to do about it.

Character strengths - Encouraging children and young people to find and use their strengths can help improve their wellbeing, happiness and sense of self-worth.

Confidence - Having confidence helps us deal with challenges, feel comfortable with ourselves and form relationships with others.

Creativity - Being involved in creative activities is fun and can help children and young people have positive experiences.

Depression and low mood  - It is normal for children and young people to have ups and downs in their mood. If their mood remains low for a prolonged period of time or they feel down most of the time, they may need support.

Eating problems - eating too much - A change in a child or young person's eating pattern is likely to be a passing phase. However, if you are concerned that a child or young person may have Binge Eating Disorder or Bulimia, it is important to get help as early as possible.

Eating problems - not eating enough  - A change in a child or young person's eating pattern is likely to be a passing phase. However, if you are concerned that a child or young person may have Anorexia, it is important to get help as early as possible.

Eating well - As well as having a healthy balanced diet, eating well is also about having healthy attitudes and behaviours around food and eating.

Emotional balance - Getting the right balance of positive and negative emotions, at least most of the time, can lead to good mental health.

Encouraging positive behaviour - Children and young people should always be praised for positive behaviour. You may want to use rewards to help with encouraging positive behaviour so the child or young person can see how well they are doing.

Five ways to wellbeing - Are we all getting our 5-a-day? Research has shown that there are five ways we can all improve our mental health and emotional wellbeing.

Good relationships - Children and young people get a sense of connection and belonging from having good relationships with the people around them.

Gratitude - Gratitude is the feeling and expression of being thankful. Being grateful can help increase children and young people's happiness and wellbeing.

Hyperactivity and inattention - Children and young people are naturally energetic, restless and excitable. They may be fidgety or noisy, or have difficulty concentrating. It is only more extreme hyperactivity and inattention that may be a sign of ADHD or ADD.

Mindfulness - Mindfulness is about being fully aware of living in the present moment, and has been shown to have long term benefits for health and happiness.

Obsessions and compulsions - Many children and young people have habits that they follow every day, and these can be comforting. However, if they are experiencing habits which have become compulsive and obsessive, they may need support to deal with this.

Optimism - Optimism is about expecting things to go well, and seeing the glass as 'half full'. There are many ways to help children and young people develop optimism.

Panic attacks - Having a panic attack can be very distressing, so it's important to know what to do to help a child or young person in this situation.

Parent and carer workshops - These workshops were developed by Fife CAMHS Primary Mental Health Workers to help support parents and carers with some common difficulties.

Parent or family member in prison - Many children and young people have the experience of a parent or family member in prison. With the right support from the people around them, they will be able to cope and learn to deal with all the changes.

Parental separation - Children and young people's reactions to parental separation will vary depending on their age and stage, and on the circumstances around the separation.

Phobias - A child or young person’s phobia is very personal and real to them, but with support can be managed or resolved.

Relaxation - Relaxation is important for our mental health, and there are many relaxation exercises that children and young people can try.

School refusal / reluctance to attend school - There are many reasons why a child or young person may not want to go to school. Identifing these reasons as soon as possible will help make it easier to find solutions.

Self-harm - A lot of young people self-harm, and many adults find it difficult to deal with. However negative and self-destructive it may seem to hurt your own body, for some young people self-harm can serve many important functions.

Separation anxiety - Separation anxiety is a normal stage of development, but it can be quite difficult for parents and carers to cope with.

Temper tantrums - Tantrums are a normal part of childhood. Children do not have tantrums to intentionally annoy you - they often happen because a child is frustrated, over-tired or when they feel they are not getting enough attention.

Tics - Many children and young people have tics, and they are often related to stress and anxiety. There are things you can do to support children and young people with tics.

Websites

Access Therapies Fife - self-help and online resources

Aye Mind - a wide range of digital resources to support mental health issues in young people 

CAMHS Resources - resources for children and young people's mental health and emotional wellbeing 

ChildLine - tools to help find ways to cope or get creative and let your feelings out  

Children and young people's wellbeing - information, advice and resources to help young people support their own mental health, from Anna Freud

Help for children and young people: Emotional wellbeing - information from Fife Council

KIDS - information and advice to help children and young people to live meaningful, healthy, independent lives 

The Mix - support for under 25s, including 1-2-1 chat, email support and short-term counselling

Moodcafe - resources and information on mental health topics from NHS Fife

NHS Inform - advice on dealing with mental health issues and where you can get help 

Our Minds Matter: parents and carers - mental health and wellbeing information for parents and carers in Fife

Our Minds Matter: young people - mental health and wellbeing information for young people in Fife

Parent Club Scotland - website for parents and carers, with tips and advice for all the challenges of family life

Parenting across Scotland - support and information for families 

Parentline Scotland - helpline for anyone caring for or concerned about a child 

Penumbra (Self-harm Network Scotland) - information and tools to provide support with self-harm, including webchat available every evening to anyone over 12 years old

Place2Be - practical tips for parents to support children’s wellbeing and behaviour

Samaritans - support for you if you're having a difficult time, or if you're worried about someone else

School nursing health hub - health and wellbeing advice for young people (12 years and over), and support for families with children under 12.

See Me - national campaign to end stigma and discrimination of mental ill-health 

Stem4 - leaflets, information, resources and apps: Calm Harm, Clear Fear, Move Mood, Combined Minds, Worth Warrior

WeHeartCBT - resources aimed at helping children and young people who are struggling with symptoms of anxiety and/or low mood 

Wellbeing in Fife - Facebook page supporting the emotional wellbeing of children and young people in Fife

Young Scot - information and resources aimed at young people aged 11-26 

YoungMinds - resources and information on the emotional wellbeing and mental health of children and young people 

Apps

Calm Harm - An app designed to help people resist or manage the urge to self-harm

Catch it - Learn how to manage feelings like anxiety, depression, anger and confusion

DistrACT - Easy, quick and discreet access to information and advice about self-harm and suicidal thoughts

Insight Timer - Free library of 30,000 guided meditations

MindShift - Help for you to learn to relax and be mindful, develop more effective ways of thinking, and take charge of your anxiety

SAM App - App to help you understand and manage anxiety

Smiling Mind - Mindfulness app to promote good mental health

Tellmi - App that allows you to talk anonymously about difficult things with other people of a similar age or experience


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